about learning the game until the slightly larger external social aspects drawn. Therefore, they would be less interested in how parents cause they lack the fear and neglect your speech.
Filtering Trop hear parents say that children learn how to cooperate and learn to be responsible for their actions. Now parents can draw attention to their children without having to shout Lot or intimidating anymore, just follow the method of any of the following:
1. Acts like a teacher
Teachers are willing donors and full of emotions. As a parent likewise. You must know how to guide their journey in life, something black. Specially modified to speak when kids fouled. Clearly, that your children will like to take the time to listen to you talk instructions.
2. Do not never say anything until the children listened attentively
You need to make sure that they are listening to you say, not room alone without you interested. Instead, you should try to approach your child to sit down with flexibility. One study suggested that the influence of the speaker easily with children is to make them want to listen to your speech. Then you have to wait for your children look at the eyes to see, you can start talking. If your child does not intersect the eye, you can say, "Can you say with your children?".
3. Create house rules
You should write the rules for implementing the family. The fact that we have such provisions for each family member how to respect each other, especially your children. What is special is that you can create a routine for children before they leave home to brush their teeth in the bathroom ready to prepare backpacks etc. You have to show what children do, through scheduling so much easier. Every morning, you just say, "are wont to do? To look at the schedule and see. " Clearly, they would be responsible for yourself, you do not need to go hard every time.
4. Try not to overreact
If you feel frustration to talk with your children, they suffer the same bad feeling. Whether they vomited you back, or walk away, they will not want to listen to your speech, because they were afraid of suffering feelings from you next time. This also makes you more angry. So instead of feeling angry your breath come out and speak to the children calm.
5. Reliable
Do you always do what you say to the children? Such as "I'll buy a cake to make a comeback," "dinner with all first to eat", "We will allow watching TV", etc., which may sound is a promise to your children, but ultimately you have forgotten all due to busy busy. Therefore no promises undermine trust as a result, they will not want to listen to what you say to them anymore.
6. loyalty
Do you often lie your baby? Most parents always told her, "you may remember" "Now, Mom, all the money from the bag," "closed shop," these lies gradually grew to think of them more. Kids' brains develop, their parents were less truthful. Therefore, they will not want to remember to listen to your speech anymore.
7. Listening to children talk again
When you're busy, but your children ran to their story at school, you listen. What would you do? If you really want your child to listen to your speech, you must stop your time, and then turned to listen to your child first. Only takes 2 to 3 minutes to listen to your child not long your job. Know that you like to hear them speak little since that makes them prefer to discuss matters with you, even if they become teenagers have been added.
8. Playing with children
Parents should spend time playing with their children, especially outdoor activities (biking, etc.) to take their interests to prefer to speak with us. As mentioned above, if you want them to listen to you, you also have to listen to them. You may notice that your children like to do like the game or join with them to improve relations with each other smoothly.
